About rumours

Disclaimer: Pictures for this entry is highly irrelevant to the text. Hahaha. I took these pictures some time ago but never knew how I can write something relevant for it, so I'll just throw them here :)




Fake rumours are the most vicious form of weapon against someone you don't like. And it is also one of the most difficult form of attack to counter.

A year or two ago, I started reading gossip forums about local bloggers because I was kaypoh and it was interesting to look into the lives of other privileged, or scandalous people.

Harmless reading led to my own revelation of how such a simple website can make people change opinions and views of someone they do not know. It's really alarming to see how people could easily believe whatever they read, not even asking themselves, who is this person who claim to have "inside info"?

Anyone can sign up for an account and claim to have "inside info".



So anyway, I was thinking this morning, what control do I have over someone "backstabbing" me and spreading rumours about me to another friend? Zero.

Situation:
FriendA bitches to FriendB. If B wasn't friend enough, she would have took in A's words and then her view of me is negative now - all because of some words. AND, in most cases, FriendB would never confront to me about what A said because it's supposed to be secret between them two. Then all this while, I would be wondering about B's sudden negativity towards me. And I would never have the chance to redeem myself.

Another situation.
C gossips to D about me. D has no connection with me whatsoever and we are not friends, not aquantainces. D has no reason not to form a negative impression of me, and thus I earned another hater without even getting to know her. Chances of me ever finding out the reason why someone hates me and get the chance to redeem myself? Zero.


I kinda pity those famous celebrities. They get ALOT of people making up stories and spreading rumours about them, to the point where they have ALOT of haters who hate them for NOTHING.



This is something to think about. Shouldn't people only form love and hate upon getting to know the person herself, and what kind of person she really is?

I hope people would give me a chance to know me better, instead of passing judgements just because of words said by people who don't like me. Chances are, words formed by a hater would usually be exaggerated, inaccurate, or fake.




I want to live in a world full of love towards each other.
Not meaningless childish dislike.

I'm back from my little trip! I had so much fun in Malacca, even though it was only 2 days. It has been really eventful! I wish I could have more of these weekend getaways!

I realise I still have 2 weeks worth of backend blog entries to blog about. Most of them are long, comprehensive entries with many pictures, must come see k!

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While you are reading this, I'd probably be at Malacca already. This is a scheduled post written yesterday!

I'm here for a 2D1N trip, in conjunction with my uncle's wedding! Will take lots of pictures and post up when I get back! I've never been to Malacca before~


Meanwhile, this twitter comic is quite funny! Hee.


Raine might be helping me publish an entry tomorrow too. Do come back and read ok!

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Down this alley at Tras St, there is this little authentic korean restaurant called Kko Kko Nara. It's very popular among koreans and people working around this area. I've heard many ravings about and finally Belinda organised a gathering for us to have dinner there!


Belinda was super happy that night because got one super cute korean guy waiter asked her for her IC when she ordered alcohol. Then when the guy saw her IC, he gave the disbelievable look and exclaimed "What? You are 1 9 8 * ??" hahaha


Jacelyn's suckable grape juice. Hahaha!
"Eh, this one can suck one leh!" LOL!


This was the chicken pieces, recommended by Bel. I didn't try the spicy one. The garlic version is not bad!~ Apparently this restaurant is famous for their chicken.


This pot of chicken & potato stew was AWESOME. I ate alot that night!! It's a must order if you come. Do bring at least 4 person though, because the portion is very huge and it's $38. Me and nadia's eyes opened wide when we saw the price. But after eating it I think it's worth every penny!


Pair it with noodles. The noodles would be super yummy after soaking in the spicy sauce!


There is this button to press on if we need the waiter. Very convenient for us! No need to keep raising our hand.


Group picture!
From left: Jacelyn, Sabrina, ME, Belinda, Nadia!


Me and Jacelyn. The lighting was horrible!


My rice bento cos I wanted to eat sunny side up hehe.


Belinda & Nadia. Obviously bel still feeling flattered about the alcohol age thingy hor. Lol.


I don't like the pancake! Nadia loved it though. o_o


And a surprise!! They planned and Jacelyn made a detour just to buy a cake for us bday girls. SO SWEEEEEET!!!! Love them loads.


It's for me and Sabrina, who has her bday after mine!


Outfit of the day. Top is from theblogshopsg! Go visit them at Far east and Haji Lane :D

Doing the owner Hayley a favour since we have so many mutual friends :)
This bag is from her bag shop;
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She gave me a total of 3 bags. This pink little cute bag can store alot of things inside! Very roomy and unexpected!


My favourite is this straw bag with gold chain and a fluffy ball.




Another nice bag include this one! This is instock due to deadbuyer! There are some other brand new instocks from other deadbuyers too.



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Today's my bday! I get to make wishes :D

My Birthday Wishes:

- Blog readers and popularity to go up up up
- Weight to go down down down
- Career advancement
- Bf to love me more more more
- Get more chances to travel and holiday
- Accomplish something
- More gui-ren
- Eliminate all xiao-ren obstructing me
- Earn more $$$
- Face to miraculously become prettier
- Be happier
- Speak better english
- Smooth journey, no troubling problems
- Good health and safety to myself and everyone I love